The Top Five Couple's Sex Toys

Sarah Gibson

Sarah Gibson is the brains and attitude behind the playful adult toy website sexgear . She is also our official ‘sexpert’.

Have you ever wanted to know what goes on inside the average kiwi bedroom? Then read on, because this week I’m giving you the inside scoop on the five most popular sex toys keeping kiwi couples warm at night.

5. Remote Controlled Toys

In at number five is the remote controlled sex toy. It’s not hard to imagine why these wireless toys are so popular amongst the sexually adventurous. Handing over the control of your pleasure to a partner ups the anticipation and excitement factor. And if you’re the one with the remote, having that power and pleasure at your fingertips can be a real turn-on - especially if you are in a public place, like a restaurant or club.

Our Pick: 7-Function Remote Bullet, $129.95

4. The We-Vibe

The We-Vibe is kicking up a storm in the number four spot. This toy burst onto the market a couple of years ago and was even featured in the goodie bags at an Oscars ceremony. Since then the new and improved Mark II version has been released and its popularity has continued to soar. This little ‘C’ shaped vibrator is designed to stimulate the clitoris and G-Spot simultaneously – but best of all, it isn’t just for solo pleasure, it’s designed to be worn during intercourse, so you’ll benefit from those good vibrations too.

Our Pick: We-Vibe II, $229.95.

3. Lubricant

Sliding in at number three is lubricant. Ok, so it’s not exactly a ‘sex toy’, but  it is a sexual enhancer, and is loved by many kiwi couples. There is an amazing range of lubes available. And they don’t just make everything slip and slide together more comfortably; they can add other sensations too. Some warm, some cool, others tingle and some even stimulate the most intimate of erogenous zones.

Our Pick: KY Yours & Mine Couples Lubricant, $29.95

2. The Vibrating Cock Ring

Vibrating Cock Rings have long been a favourite amongst couples and they are our second most popular type of couple’s sex toy. Their popularity increased after Durex released their own model, launching them into the mainstream. And if you thought that cock rings are just for her pleasure then think again. They don’t just add a buzz of clitoral stimulation for her – the stretchy band that is fitted at the base of the erect penis slows the flow of blood, making the erection harder and stronger. Plus, you’ll feel the enjoyable vibrations in the shaft of your penis.

Our Pick: The Ultimate Couples Cock Ring, $39.95.    

1. The Classic vibe

For couples who are just setting out on their sex toy experience or for those who have been using toys for years; the classic vibrator is always a natural choice. These toys can be used all over the body to stimulate the stomach, shoulders, breasts, inner thighs, genitals or anywhere else that takes your fancy. It is this versatility and their relative inexpensiveness that makes classic vibes, by far, our most popular couple’s toy. 

Our Pick: My First Vibrator, $21.95.

And there you have it, a peek into the nocturnal habits of kiwi couples.

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  • Lauren says
  • Cinty says
    I thought the we vibe would be number one!
  • KH says
    Hadn't realised the vbrating cock ring was such a popular choice.
    • Anna says
      it makes it so nice for the girl imo!!
      • KH says
        Good to know!
      • Anna says
        its always hard to start the toys idea... but once you start its hard to stop!! add so much fun!!
      • KH says
        So do you go for buying online, yourself? Shop alone?? Drag someone in with you??
      • Anna says
        lol ive done all buying online... with my partner and alone.... its fun to buy with your partner... but can be a bit daunting... online is good coz its not so embarrassing ... but sometimes you dont get exactually what you think your getting... and alone i guess can be embarrassing aswell... i guess its not the simplest thing... but i did like shopping with my guy and choosing together... the next shop he wanted to go to was an electronic place to get a camera =P
      • Sarah G says
        Hi all, hey just remember if you need any advice about making a purchase, feel free to give us a call here at and I can give you any advice you need!
        • KH says
          Thanks. Good to know! I was addicted to that shooting the bunnies game that was up...must have been round easter? Just could not get every bunny...!

          I think we need another competition like that!
        • Sarah G says
          yes that was our Easter Bunny Game - we had a really good response for it! Bit of a laugh :)
          • KH says
            It was hilarious! Loved it!
          • Dee-Dee says
            I would call the cock ring, lube and the traditional vibrator as essential sex toys and would definitely be up there with the top five but I reckon there are other good couple toys like the fantasy swing, bondage lingerie, whips and him and her massage rings etc...
          • New Member says
            With regards to sexual activity moves, it's very best when given to a loving companion. Without that love, The best strokers online, particularly if we're measuring satisfaction gained versus money put in! Would strongly recommend

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