Getting a Handle on Hand Jobs

Sarah Gibson

Sarah Gibson is the brains and attitude behind the playful adult toy website sexgear . She is also our official ‘sexpert’.

You’ve got to hand it to the men in our lives; they’ve pretty much mastered their own manual manipulation. (Yes, more hand puns will follow). So, it’s easy to assume that he won’t be interested in receiving a hand job from you. Wrong! There’s a big difference. Your hands are connected to you! And you turn him on! Ta da! Now how to do it and do it well…

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Tease and please

The element of surprise is a wonderful technique to begin a little manual massage. While you’re sitting on the couch together, blobbed out in front of the tele, and seemingly disinterested in sexy times, reach over and start undoing his fly. The shock alone will be enough to turn up the heat.

Slow and steady wins the race

When men masturbate, they forgo a slow and sensual build up in favour of fast, intense stimulation. By slowing things down, you can offer him an entirely different experience. Trace your fingers along his belly and down to his inner thighs, graze them lightly against his shaft. Dedicate some time to slow and sensual touches before working up to a regular, faster motion.

Don’t shaft him

Too often we keep our hands in the limited region of the shaft when surrounding areas are just as receptive to our digital dedication. . By applying pressure to his frenulum (a fold of soft tissue on the underside of his glans) you can speed up his progress to orgasm. The opening at the top of the glans is also highly sensitive - he will love it when you circle the palm of your hand over this. Depending on how bold your man is, spending some time gently stimulating his anal region with your other hand can also be highly pleasurable.

The finish line

Taking him to hand job heaven requires three key ingredients; a steady rhythm, a confident grip, and plenty of lube. Did you read that bit about plenty of lube? I’ll write it again. Plenty.Of.Lube. Nothing puts out the fire like painful friction and the risk of chafe. A silicone lube will last well and remain slick. Once a healthy dollop of lube has been applied, take one hand and place it at the base of the penis. Slowing bring your hand up the shaft, with your thumb massaging one side of it as you go. When you reach the top, immediately take your other hand and begin massaging up the shaft. Repeat until, well, you know when.

 
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