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The perfect one.

You have to kiss a million frogs before you meet that specail one, and NZ is one of the hardest places to find the perfect partner. When you're out women out weigh men 10:1 and there is so much competition out there. All good but when you do find that perfect one hang on to them and keep the spice alive by dating once a month and celebrate every event. Any excuse to connect and take time away from the normal mundane life and make a special time for each other.


The 'odds' will increase/decrease with the Gay bill pass in debate


not really.. because it doesnt matter if your allowed to get married or not... your still gay/straight......... you dont change coz the law does?


Haha - seriously? You think the 'Gay bill' will make a difference to how many men are available for women? Like all these guys will be like "Oh, it's legal now, forget women, lets get married to other men!" Pffft! And I know that women out number men, but I'm pretty sure the ratio isn't 10:1...


When (some) women can't catch a guy, they label that the good ones are either married or gay....... Sometimes girls expectation or standards are too high..... the word 'shallow' comes to mind, then again there is no need to be 'too easy'.


It may sound cynical but I don't believe there is ever a perfect one. Marriage and even friendships take work. Sometimes it's shared commonalities that attract people, sometimes differences. The balance can change as people change and grow. I once loved rollercoasters but I would never ride one by choice today.

Dating after awhile becomes alike a 'roller-coaster',.. then vertigo sets in... Then out of the blue......... you're hit by a bus.

lol not ever relationship gets hit by a bus!!


...if you think there is a total perfect partner out there you are delusional....there are partners you live with share love and interests with but also see their good and bad sides...but that is called a relationship....we can create this perfect partner and then be sadly disappointed...so don't do it to yourselves ladies, just love your relationship and the man you are with, and take his good and bad sides like he would yours....that is more fulfilling then putting him up on a pedestal or dreaming of something more its working on keeping that balance.....


Pobody is Nerfect..... lol Dee-Dee has it sussed ....


Nobody Is Perfect, well maybe !!! Once upon a time, a perfect man and a perfect woman met. After a perfect courtship, they had a perfect wedding. Their life was of course perfect. One snowy, stormy Christmas Eve this perfect couple was driving their perfect car along a winding road, when they noticed someone at the side of the road in distress. Being the perfect couple they stopped to help. There stood Santa Claus with a big bundle of toys. Not wanting to disappoint any children on the Eve of Christmas, the perfect couple loaded Santa and the toys into their vehicle. Soon they were driving along delivering the toys. Unfortunately the driving conditions deteriorated and the perfect couple; and Santa had an accident. Only one of them survived. Which one you ask? The perfect woman survived of course. She’s the only one who existed in the first place. Everyone knows there is no such thing as Santa Clause or the perfect man. Right Ladies?

Goodness thought l would of got a few bites by now?


There is no Perfect One, there is only a Soulmate... imperfection is a beauty in any relationship, that what makes the venture and oneness more worthwhile and enjoyable... Enjoy the journey of life with your Soulmate... Cheers!

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