Discussing :: Going Dutch - dining out


Going Dutch - dining out

Being an independent sort of person, would you be offended in paying for your own meal on a date?


Nope, I prefer to pay my own way...I hate the thought that I owe anyone anything.


I think in the 21st century women should expect to either take turns at paying or pay half. We fought for equality so we have to live it.


I always pay my own way...I think it is fair and doesn't put any high expectations on you.


No I would always pay my own way, or at least genuinely offer but I would prefer to pay for myself anyway


Not at all - depends on where you are taken though - some places can charge an arm and a leg!


Going Dutch is totally appropriate in this day and age, underlining equality and independence.


I wouldn't mind having to pay for my own meal unless I was explicitly invited out for a meal, but even then I would make sure I have cash on hand just in case


I think going dutch is fair these days... we tend to date and change partners a lot more in modern times before settling down then 50 years ago. Also going out is far more expensive these days :)

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