Valentine’s Gifts to Turn up the Heat

Sarah Gibson

Sarah Gibson is the brains and attitude behind the playful adult toy website sexgear . She is also our official ‘sexpert’.

Year after year, Valentines rolls around and you find yourself in a frantic state, incessantly asking Google to give you the answer to the seemingly unanswerable question; ‘What should I get him?’ You see, he has it considerably easier. You’d love lingerie, flowers and chocolates. But if a bunch of Baby’s Breath turns up at his open-plan office, he’s less likely to appreciate the sentiment, never mind the walk with them to the bus.

But what do boys like? They like you! (Bless them.) And they especially like intimate you! So rather than traipsing Dick Smith to find that wii-tendo-station thingy-ma-jig that you’ve heard him muttering about, follow our guide of gifts that are sure to tickle his fancy.

1. Get Him Lingerie

Because he’d look great in a thong. We jest. We JEST! Get yourself something slinky for your Valentines evening to set the sexy  mood. This lacy version of wrapping paper reveals his favourite gift….you! Tell him you’ll take care of putting it on but it’s his responsibility to take it off.

We recommend: Mesh and Lace Chemise with Bows, $49.95



2. Give Him a Heat Treat

Sure you massage each other, but mainly to get the knot out of his back or to soothe the OOS in your shoulder. Take your touch back to a sensual place with this massage candle. Drizzle the all natural oils onto each other and enjoy how the added sensation of heat makes you both tingle all over.

We recommend: Edible Massage Candle, $27.95

3. Embrace Your Chemistry                 

Lubricants are no longer a necessary evil, chucked in the top drawer and glooped on only when the event calls for it. Now with massage lubes, edible lubes and orgasmic lubes to choose from, they make a great part of foreplay. KY Yours and Mine is created for couples and produces powerful results when mixed together!

We recommend: KY Yours and Mine, $29.95

4. 50 Shades of Valentine’s Day

As far as we see it, there’s no better day than Valentines to finally indulge in that 50 Shades fantasy. Valentines, in all its Hallmark glory, should be commended for inspiring us to be a little bit more adventurous, creative and giving in the bedroom for the evening. Tying your partner up and subjecting them to unwavering pleasure this Valentines would have Mr Grey very pleased indeed.

We recommend: Anything from Sex and Mischief, $19.95 - $59.95



5. Because 2 Million Couples Can’t Be Wrong

Feel free to share the pleasure this Valentine’s Day and treat your partner to a present you can both enjoy. It’s an investment but deemed one of the best sex toys on the international market, and given it pleasure both you and him, it’s like two for one. Worn during lovemaking, the We-Vibe will allow him to give you one of the greatest gifts of all, a simultaneous g-spot and clitoral orgasm.

We Recommend: We-Vibe 3, $220.00 (on sale now!)

Sexgear are celebrating Valentine’s day with a giveaway just for Chelsey readers. Simply post on their Facebook page with your plan for Valentine’s Day and copy and paste your post in the comments section of this competition to win a Valentine’s Indulgence Pack for couples valued at $170.00.

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