Top Five Popular Places to have Sex

Sarah Gibson

Sarah Gibson is the brains and attitude behind the playful adult toy website sexgear . She is also our official ‘sexpert’.

Earlier this week I was reading an article about the bizarre items that have been left in hotel rooms. And surprisingly it was not sex toys, the phone chargers or even the fake limbs that caught my eye. Instead it was the passing statement that more and more people are ‘getting caught having sex on plainly-visible security cameras - in pools, spas, saunas, hallways, stairwells, bars and even in storeroom cupboards!’

Kiss me baby!Now if I were cynical I might say that is simply because there are more cameras around these days; but perhaps more people are feeling frisky outside of the bedroom and following through with their desires. Either way it’s inspired me to find out where the most popular places are for kiwi couples to have sex (other than the bedroom).

5. In the kitchen

Plenty of couples have been whipping up some unforgettable fun in the kitchen; meaning that sex on the kitchen bench or table is the fifth most popular place to let loose.

Top tip: Creativity is a great asset when it comes to sex so why just stop at the kitchen table? Why not experiment over the sink, in front of the freezer, on the stove or on the floor?

4. In the woods

Picture the scene; you’re walking hand in hand with your man through the bush when you just can’t control your urge to pounce any longer. You encourage him into the undergrowth before having your way with him. Sound familiar? Well plenty of couples have been there; making this number 4.

Top tip: in this situation insect repellent is a girl’s best friend – apply to any exposed areas of skin, except where your man is likely to kiss or lick.

3. Water babes

It’s easy to see why a pool or beautiful body of water is appealing and romantic, so it’s not surprising that plenty of kiwis have gotten amorous under the waves.

Top tip: The problem with sex in water is that it can wash away your body’s natural lubrication. So to avoid unwanted friction, use a silicone-based lube like Pjur Original (which is waterproof).

2. In the car

Ever been on a road trip and had an uncontrollable urge to stop the car and climb into the backseat to make love? This is a predicament that has faced confident kiwis all over the country – making the car the number 2.

Top tip: The best spot to have sex in most cars isn’t necessarily the backseat, because there’s not much leg room. So the next time you’re caught short, try reclining the passenger seat and adopting a woman-on-top position instead.

1. In the bath or shower

Bathing or showering together can be great fun. For a start you are both naked and lathering each other up with sexy soap suds, which can do wonders for the libido. Add to that the fact that all homes have a bath or shower, and it’s easy to see why this is the most popular place to have sex outside of the bedroom.

Top tip: While some people are flexible and have great balance control, others need a little extra help. So if you’re planning to seduce your man in the shower, check out the hand grips and foot holds in the Sex in the Shower range.

Obviously some of the above locations are more risky than others – in terms of getting caught. But just moving out of the bedroom can do wonders for your sex life. So why not spice things up a little and venture somewhere different?

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  • Belinda says
    Not that I've done it myself but what about on a Trampoline ?!?!
  • When i was younger and lust overcame common sense I once indulged at my work place in a dark room on a photo processing machine... lol thinking back we were lucky not to be overcome by fumes
  • shopping says
    on the beach behind a boulder lol that only just covers some of you
  • Ebby says
    I dont think you can beat in the spa bath or in the garden on a beautyiful night!!!
  • Tanya says
    In the long grass on a picnic blanket as long as you arn't allergic!
  • samala says
    Sex on the beach is always a favourite in alot of movies ( wasnt meaning the naughty ones) but you would so want a big blanket to lay on, couldnt think of anything worse than that course sand in the wrong places! I have tried the bath but we ended up a big mess of arms and legs and water all over the floor. We did see the funny side in it all though.
  • oh yes! the good old days, in the back of my mans chev! (now replaced with a people mover, ha!ha!) parked up at one tree hill, once we had just finished, and the security came round, lucky he had a torch, as it gave us enought time to pull our undies up!

    These days, its in bed, comfortable but not very exciting. But do enjoy it when the massage oils are pulled out.
  • Courtney says
    My boyfriend once splashed out and took me to the most beautiful beauty spa in Hamner Springs in Christchurch, before our amazing massages, we ended up having a reeallllllyyy good time in the steam room ;) great way to unwind together! you feel amazing after, I recommend it to everyone haha!
  • nikkim says
    The days of "do'in it in the car" are well over, but I will settle for the spa pool, its a great place for sex - warm & intimate!
    • New Member says
      Only problem with the spa or a pool is the lack of slipperiness. The water washes it away
    • Claire1971 says
      In the kitchen? Once you're married with a few kids in tow, you may have to perfect the art of being the passionate lover whilst stacking the dishwasher, making the packed lunches and wiping down the bench!

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