Discussing :: Threesomes

Threesomes, we’ve all heard about them and they’re a common male fantasy, but are they three times the fun or three times the trouble? Just what do they involve and are people actually doing them? The basics A threesome is ‘a form of group sex involving three people of any gender combination’ - and that form really does vary. Some threesomes have a participant in the ‘voyeur role’ – i.e. the invited member could be there to enhance a couples sexual experience or to act out a sexual fantasy, like a guy wanting to watch his partner have sex with another man or woman. Whereas other threesomes will involve all members... read full article

#1

Lauren
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I would never risk that with my partner, it'd just feel strange.

#2

StillMe

Yeah, I'd do it. What the heck. In fact, I could probably pick two guys right now... :)

#3

Anna

lol most guys dont want two guys.. they want two girls =P


Cinty

Funny. My husband and I were talking about this the other night. He reckons I wouldn't be able to 'handle' two guys. But he said with two girls, he'd just sit and watch lol.


StillMe

Just have to find the right guys :)

#4

KH

Not for me...

#5

Anna

yer but.. like i dunno.. might be good to spice thigs up ince n a while?? lol i decide this sometimes but then i think could i stand seeing my guy kissing another chick or doing anything with another chick and i know the answers no... so i dunno....

#6

kano11

I think that to do this you must be unhappy in your relationship - well not satisfied enough! I have had friends had their relationships ruined by doing this. Hey each to their own but not my thing!

#7

Wice

Two’s company. Three’s a crowd!

I recall my Mum saying to me that by simply existing, you share yourself with the world. Every time that you talk, you smile, you wave, you run, you cough, you are expressing yourself to those around you.

Sharing your body sexually, is the one thing that you can consciously keep as something special. To give your body totally freely and with love and is the ultimate intimacy. If you truly love someone, this is the greatest gift you can give them and condoms, pills, whatever – the chance a new life could result from your union!

You think it might be fun to have sex with two guys at once? The best result - maybe it is temporarily, a great sexual turn on. The worst result – you lose your self-respect, these guys and their friends’ respect, you get pregnant and don’t know who the father is.

What about sex with another woman and a man? Your guy? Her guy? How will you feel when you meet either of them in the future? How will you feel about yourself – good enough to tell your Mum, your future man, your daughter about this great experience?

Your body is yours to use as you please and no one can tell you what to do with it. It is a personal choice. However, since you only get one body, then perhaps you should think about respecting it and loving it.

If you had a Lamborghini, would leave it with the keys in it, the doors open, ready for any Tom, Dick or Harry to drive, to crash, to get their kicks in? Is your body of less value than a car?

Whatever happened to the magic of making love?

#8

Starlite5

Great as a fantasy but I don't think I'd be able to go through with the real thing but then you never until you're in the moment do you?

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