Discussing :: Going Solo - the pro's, the con's.


Going Solo - the pro's, the con's.

After a break-up, many of us may consider 'Going Solo'........ the choice.,
Heart-ache may kill or make one stronger.
What do you believe?



I believe you should follow your heart and allow nature to take its course.



Going solo might work for some, but after a long break and time to recover emotionally etc, I'd rather be with someone. It will take yet more work and effort, but a relationship is a really special thing, and totally worth it :)



It's all about timing. Sometimes you need a bit of solitary time to work through issues and not rush into other relationships.



Going solo is not for the faint hearted, it requires strength of character and a strong mind with clear thoughts to plan the future and make it work


The thing is to try and understand each others feelings and thoughts and not make a mountain out of a mole hill. Its not worth it. Perhaps always shut up even if you think your right, and the most important thing is to always make up before you go to sleep. You really don't want any arguments or disagreements to carry on into the next day. You only make yourself miserable and your partner.



Loads more time to yourself going solo. Don't have to worry about making someone else happy all the time. Can be lonely though, and lame If you end up hanging out with all your couple friends



The cons far outweigh the pros.


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Going solo .... You can do whatever you like , with whoever you like , however you like , whenever you like ! =)

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